Becoming an escort is a decision that a lot of women have contemplated, more than you’d ever guess. The difference between an escort and a prositute is that unlike prostitution, escorts never take money for sex. Instead an escort will charge a client for their time with them.
Also escorts earn and ask more for their time than an average prostitute would ask for sex. The first thing you need to do is be able to ask yourself if escorting is for you? There are a lot of women who are sexually liberated and very open minded however after escorting once or twice they can’t handle some of the situations they encounter. I’ve also met some people who you would assume are soft spoken, and excuse me, but push-overs… and they end up being the ones who are the most successful and happiest with their decision. With that being said it’s not something that any one else can decide for you, the best thing you can do is picture yourself in different situations and imagine how you’d react to them. If you make a fully educated decision to go ahead with being an escort, and it doesn’t work out – hey, you tried, thats fine.
How Long Should I Be An Escort For?
Once you’ve decided you want to give it a try, then its best you figure out how long you want to be an escort for. If you decide you want to escort for six months, and if it goes well you will continue, that’s OK. But at the end of the six months sit down with yourself and remind yourself that you were going to make a decision at this point whether or not you wanted to continue escorting. Treat the decision to continue the same as when you first started. There’s many reasons to set goals, and different kinds of goals you can set.. but the most important part is making sure you do it. The details don’t matter, it’s all about the bigger idea of tracking your progress.
Have the right personality.
Being an escort isn’t for most people because most people want relationships for love or commitment. It is important to be able to divide your personal wants from your professional realities.
Decide on what your limitations will be in terms of forming relationships, involving kissing, etc. Look deep inside and be honest with yourself as to your ability to handle this type of work. A role like this is more suitable for a strong individual who likes independence and distance from others, yet is able to communicate well and understand other’s needs.
Work As An Independent Escort or Agency Escort
If you know you want to become an escort, you’ve set some goals, now it’s time to get down to the nitty gritty and decide if you want to work as an independent escort or work for an escort agency. These are two very different types of setups and there’s pros and cons for working for both.
Research the escort agencies.
In Kenya it’s difficult to find reputable escort agencies that are well run and can demonstrate to you that they put their employee’s needs first and take good care of you but there are a few out there.
Check security arrangements, check how they vet clients, check the income earned and check whether you click. This is a people business and you need to feel comfortable around the people you’re working for, as well as with clients.
If you decide to do this alone, realize that it will be a lot harder and possibly dangerous.
Agency or Independent?
Working for yourself benefits:
You can keep all the money
You pick the clients you work with
You set your prices
You can pick the days off
Working for yourself draw backs:
You don’t have as much protection as working for an agency
You can get hurt if you don’t screen the guy the right way
You are alone with a stranger who you don’t know
You have to market yourself
Working for an agency Benefits:
You have a team of people watching out for you at all times
The men are screened before they get to you
You don’t have to market yourself, the company handles that for you
You can meet other woman in the same field in the company that can offer you advice